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IS a Relationship better than being Single?

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multixamza01

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Please don't continue this over-the-top awkward conversation. Bottom line ''Stay single , if not , then good for you , say hello to hellfire for me'' . Allah created you and everyone else , so if He says it's wrong so it's WRONG. Stop finding loopholes , there aren't any.
 
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multixamza01 said:
Please don't continue this over-the-top awkward conversation. Bottom line ''Stay single , if not , then good for you , say hello to hellfire for me'' . Allah created you and everyone else , so if he says it's wrong so it's WRONG. Stop finding loopholes , there aren't any.
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NICE! :)
 
rz123

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it varies and depends on many factors when choosing any of these options, complicated matter. but it's your choice. whichever way makes you feel happy and peaceful, you should go for that 1 i guess. Enjoy. :D
 
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Rvel Zahid said:
it varies and depends on many factors when choosing any of these options, complicated matter. but it's your choice. whichever way makes you feel happy and peaceful, you should go for that 1 i guess. Enjoy. :D
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Thats so right! You know I believe pain comes with love so it depend on u if u want to face it and be happy or be happy the way you are! :)
 
leadingguy

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different people different thoughts different opinions. Nothing to say at the moment! as m not that much experienced abt the kind of relation! M a beginner:D lolx
 
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well i would like to say k its so attractive for youth nowadays to daydream about a Relationship with opposite gender while drooling like lunatics ... but seriusly if u dun realize it now u will regret later .. i personally experienced it and i know that peace of mind can never be attained as long as u are bsy satisfying ur ID (nafs) by going on the ways which are prohibited by the creator (not without reason ,but for our own sake) .. u should look after ur soul and save it from being tainted with evil ... try to discover the purpose of ur creation (And I created not the jinns and humans except they should worship Me .[chapter 51 verse 56]) rather than trying to be a source of ur own destruction ...... and i suggest u read my signature ..... this signature defines my life and the life of many others out there Perfectly ! Salam and a good day to u
 
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Ahmedfj said:
well i would like to say k its so attractive for youth nowadays to daydream about a Relationship with opposite gender while drooling like lunatics ... but seriusly if u dun realize it now u will regret later .. i personally experienced it and i know that peace of mind can never be attained as long as u are bsy satisfying ur ID (nafs) by going on the ways which are prohibited by the creator (not without reason ,but for our own sake) .. u should look after ur soul and save it from being tainted with evil ... try to discover the purpose of ur creation (And I created not the jinns and humans except they should worship Me .[chapter 51 verse 56]) rather than trying to be a source of ur own destruction ...... and i suggest u read my signature ..... this signature defines my life and the life of many others out there Perfectly ! Salam and a good day to u
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i dont think theres anything wrong at all in being in a relationship that halaal... the Quran also mentions that u r created in pairs... u myt have regreted it bcz, mayb bcz she wasnt the ryt person 4 u... n trust me, when u do it the halaal way, regret never comes bcz then u think of Allah b4 everything u do... u need to have a relation, else ull end up in bigger haraam...
look at the half glass full, u myt have lost her bcz u deserve better.. noones telling u to get another girl, all im saying is if its halaal, there wont b much regret evn if it ends, but ofcourse, thrs more understanding if its halaal so less chances of regret... (except for the divorce cases)
 
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