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Love

Do you believe in love?

  • Yes

  • No

  • Maybe

  • Used to

  • Yeah like aliens and mermaids exist


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Who are u to tell me whats right and whats wrong? And thats what eminem said not me...Plus idk what u knw but u dnt have right to interfere in anyones life...ik ur scene also but did i ever mention it here or elsewhere? Did i?
u can mention it if u want to
until n unless u know it true
plus swearing is wrong whether eminem says anything or u
coz wrong is wrong no matter who is the person doing it
plus this is not the place to argue abt this
 
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So an interesting debate turned to a sick convo just by ignorance of few ppl -_____-
Yup yassob ur rgt its abt priorties :)
But still...i dt believe in love...evry1 has a rgt to stick to their opinion
 
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Firstly all of u arrogant people -_-
Everyone has their own opinions and decisions
Emadthegreat no stats will change tht
yasoob_shah no folk story will change tht
Miss Gorgeous ; no lame example wnt change tht

Secondly I believe love does exsist thou i was a non-believer
Its one of those feelings which take a looot of time to find
Now abt the 40-50% yeah so wht tht doesnt mean every love marriage ends in divorce and sometimes arrange marriage ends in divorce well bcuz people didnt knw each other and didnt get alone
But whether Arrange Marriage or Love Marriage wht difference does it make?
In the end love is there. So stop with arguing this

Believe wht u want, but all ur lame arguing just shows keh theres no love between friends or strangers either :) #Verysad
 
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It still does not prove love between a boy n girl before marriage is right
I think u r supporting love coz u r in love
Which is wrong
 
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We all know what happens when u r in relationship with a person before marriage
U guessed it ryt
TEEN PREGNANCY!
One of the major problem western as well as eastern governments facing
 
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Love is a reality for those who are lucky to have found it, but an illusion for those who haven't.

That's what i think is the best way to sum this all up. :p

Yes, the 'Romeo and Juliet' type love is not found these days.
Or 'Titanic' - A guy giving up his life to save a girl he just met on a cruise ship.
Or 'The fault in our stars' - Two cancer inflicted lovers.. so in love they can't think of anything else. Etc etc.
Or all those clichéd fairy tales.. Cinderella and what not. Although i think the 'Love at first sight' thing in Cinderella is just crap. o.o

But that does not mean that Love doesn't exist at all. It is POSSIBLE for two humans to become emotionally attached to one another, and start developing feelings.
It is possible for them to care about each other. To worry about the other person. To do whatever possible to make the other person happy. To feel so close as to be able to share anything and everything. To miss the other person. To think about him/her all day long!

What is that, if not Love?

It is possible to find a 'soul-mate'.

Infatuation and Love are two different things. A crush is not Love. If you are simply attracted to another person, that is not love and will most probably not lead to anything good.
Yes, sometimes things don't work out.. and things end.. but that just means the Love wasn't true. If it was, those two would just find a way back to each other.

There are selfish people out there. People who pretend they care, but don't. But there are nice people out there too. :LOL:

Anyways, i think there is no use arguing about this topic. Everyone has their own opinion.
Those who don't believe in love, can live their entire life devoid of any form of love or affection.. Thinking that it does not exist. (That's sad.. ) :giggle:
And the hopeless romantics who do believe in true love and the eternal bliss that comes from being united with one's soul-mate, can just hope they find him/her someday. (y)
 
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Love is a reality for those who are lucky to have found it, but an illusion for those who haven't.

That's what i think is the best way to sum this all up. :p

Yes, the 'Romeo and Juliet' type love is not found these days.
Or 'Titanic' - A guy giving up his life to save a girl he just met on a cruise ship.
Or 'The fault in our stars' - Two cancer inflicted lovers.. so in love they can't think of anything else. Etc etc.
Or all those clichéd fairy tales.. Cinderella and what not. Although i think the 'Love at first sight' thing in Cinderella is just crap. o.o

But that does not mean that Love doesn't exist at all. It is POSSIBLE for two humans to become emotionally attached to one another, and start developing feelings.
It is possible for them to care about each other. To worry about the other person. To do whatever possible to make the other person happy. To feel so close as to be able to share anything and everything. To miss the other person. To think about him/her all day long!

What is that, if not Love?

It is possible to find a 'soul-mate'.

Infatuation and Love are two different things. A crush is not Love. If you are simply attracted to another person, that is not love and will most probably not lead to anything good.
Yes, sometimes things don't work out.. and things end.. but that just means the Love wasn't true. If it was, those two would just find a way back to each other.

There are selfish people out there. People who pretend they care, but don't. But there are nice people out there too. :LOL:

Anyways, i think there is no use arguing about this topic. Everyone has their own opinion.
Those who don't believe in love, can live their entire life devoid of any form of love or affection.. Thinking that it does not exist. (That's sad.. ) :giggle:
And the hopeless romantics who do believe in true love and the eternal bliss that comes from being united with one's soul-mate, can just hope they find him/her someday. (y)
As far as what people say is that love makes you generous or i should say that sacrificing for people
If that is true then why we lie to our loved ones?
Why we deceive them?
Plus the examples you gave me are fictional
Lemme tell you about love:
A guy married a girl named sidra by paying her a certain amount
She tried to run away tge night she was married

Here's another one:
If love means caring for people then why do women run away with their lover from their husbands house?
Or even worse their own house?
Do they not care about tje dignity of their parents, who "loved'' her?
I can give you countless examples
But the bestestest one below:

HABEEL and QABEEL incident
The first murder in the history of mankind!
This murder was between two BROTHERS for a girl
So i guess love doesnt exist
And if there is remote possibility of love existing then it would suck!
 
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As far as what people say is that love makes you generous or i should say that sacrificing for people
If that is true then why we lie to our loved ones?
Why we deceive them?

Lemme tell you about love:
A guy married a girl named sidra by paying her a certain amount
She tried to run away tge night she was married


If love means caring for people then why do women run away with their lover from their husbands house?
Or even worse their own house?

Do they not care about tje dignity of their parents, who "loved'' her?
I can give you countless examples
But the bestestest one below:
So i guess love doesnt exist
And if there is remote possibility of love existing then it would suck!

Do you honestly think there is no love in this world? No feelings? No emotions?

The answer to most of your questions in red is that humans are not perfect. They make mistakes.
Unlike Angels, we have the tendency to lie. To hurt the people close to us, sometimes.

If we were perfect, and all of us were models of excellence, what would be the purpose of this life?
We are here BECAUSE we are not perfect.

We lie.
We hurt.
We deceive.
We are selfish.

.. But we are human!

We also forgive.
We also forget.
We also care.

The examples you mentioned in yellow, there are only a few such examples. Only like 2 out of like a 1000 people do that. Maybe even much much more than 1000.
Now that can't possibly be the case with the entire population of 7 billion people in the world.

Just because there are a few 'odd' cases where humans display selfishness, or a girl runs away from home without caring about her parents.. does that mean that the entire concept of 'Love' is wrong? Does that mean that NO ONE in the entire world truly Loves their parents or siblings?

There are people who truly care about their loved ones and would do anything for them!
There are people who would die themselves rather than let their loved ones get hurt. There are people who would take a bullet in order to protect the people close to them. Parents would gladly give their life to save their children!

I am a 100% sure that nearly ALL of the parents would gladly take a bullet for their children if it meant saving them. And i am sure it also goes the other way around!

Last year in Peshawar, Pakistan.. many innocent children were murdered at the hands of terrorists. Their parents spent months crying for them. And possibly will be sad their entire life. The entire nation weeped at the misfortune that had befallen upon them. What is this if not Love?

The army that fights for your country. Why are they risking their life? Do they like being so close to death every day? Do they like being in the hands of fate, not knowing whether they will live or die the next day? No. They LOVE their country, and want to serve it and that is why they go there and risk their life to do something!

YES, i get what you mean. Seeing the cases you mentioned it does seem that Love is a worthless illusion. It does seem that in the end we don't care about anything.

But we do care.

This entire world revolves around the concept of Love. 'Love' is not just limited to being between a Boy and Girl.
It is a universal emotion that is so powerful. It shapes who we are. Allows us to do things we can't even hope we could possibly do.

If there was no love, we would all live life in solitude, not caring about each other. What kind of life would that be?
We love the people who matter to us. We care about them. We want to be better human beings so we could have their approval.

The world consists of relative things. Where there is good, there is also bad. Where there are nice people, there are also heartless people.

So just because a stupid idiot girl ran away from her home with a lover (Which she obviously would regret later, and feel that she did a wrong thing.. and made a mistake), or a person killed his brother, you can't possibly assume that this entire world is devoid of Love.

Life that has no love in it. No feelings. No emotions. No caring for others. It is an empty life. What could we possibly gain from a purposeless, hollow and empty existence such as that?
 
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Do you honestly think there is no love in this world? No feelings? No emotions?

The answer to most of your questions in red is that humans are not perfect. They make mistakes.
Unlike Angels, we have the tendency to lie. To hurt the people close to us, sometimes.

If we were perfect, and all of us were models of excellence, what would be the purpose of this life?
We are here BECAUSE we are not perfect.

We lie.
We hurt.
We deceive.
We are selfish.

.. But we are human!

We also forgive.
We also forget.
We also care.

The examples you mentioned in yellow, there are only a few such examples. Only like 2 out of like a 1000 people do that. Maybe even much much more than 1000.
Now that can't possibly be the case with the entire population of 7 billion people in the world.

Just because there are a few 'odd' cases where humans display selfishness, or a girl runs away from home without caring about her parents.. does that mean that the entire concept of 'Love' is wrong? Does that mean that NO ONE in the entire world truly Loves their parents or siblings?

There are people who truly care about their loved ones and would do anything for them!
There are people who would die themselves rather than let their loved ones get hurt. There are people who would take a bullet in order to protect the people close to them. Parents would gladly give their life to save their children!

I am a 100% sure that nearly ALL of the parents would gladly take a bullet for their children if it meant saving them. And i am sure it also goes the other way around!

Last year in Peshawar, Pakistan.. many innocent children were murdered at the hands of terrorists. Their parents spent months crying for them. And possibly will be sad their entire life. The entire nation weeped at the misfortune that had befallen upon them. What is this if not Love?

The army that fights for your country. Why are they risking their life? Do they like being so close to death every day? Do they like being in the hands of fate, not knowing whether they will live or die the next day? No. They LOVE their country, and want to serve it and that is why they go there and risk their life to do something!

YES, i get what you mean. Seeing the cases you mentioned it does seem that Love is a worthless illusion. It does seem that in the end we don't care about anything.

But we do care.

This entire world revolves around the concept of Love. 'Love' is not just limited to being between a Boy and Girl.
It is a universal emotion that is so powerful. It shapes who we are. Allows us to do things we can't even hope we could possibly do.

If there was no love, we would all live life in solitude, not caring about each other. What kind of life would that be?
We love the people who matter to us. We care about them. We want to be better human beings so we could have their approval.

The world consists of relative things. Where there is good, there is also bad. Where there are nice people, there are also heartless people.

So just because a stupid idiot girl ran away from her home with a lover (Which she obviously would regret later, and feel that she did a wrong thing.. and made a mistake), or a person killed his brother, you can't possibly assume that this entire world is devoid of Love.

Life that has no love in it. No feelings. No emotions. No caring for others. It is an empty life. What could we possibly gain from a purposeless, hollow and empty existence such as that?
Still what about the stats?
 
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