My school friend!!! duhhhhhhhhhh

[shahlakh]

I have been facing this problem a lot but still i kept patience. But now i think I should ask this question from you guys.
I have seen many times friends trying to tease a student in pakistani schools.Like for example, in my school a friend of mine was escaping from a small boy who wanted to beat her as she did something with him, to us ne mujh per ishaara kertay hoi chohtay bachhay se kaha keh "Main ne nahi is ne kiya hai" This didn't only happen once. This has happened several times with me. They always try to make me a victim of something. I mean...........that is quite rude of them. Even one of my friends tried to bully me by calling me "maani", when I came new to this school.
But my friends appreciate me a lot by calling me pretty cute and sweet. My mother even told me that may be some of my friends are jealous of me as i am cute and pretty. That is why they are teasing me.
However i need your suggestions
Thank you.

 

[WellWIshER]

I DONT agree with ur mother

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Well, just remember these things "Never plan something bad for anyone by snatching their rights, and never ever let anyone snatch your rights"
If they bully you, stand against them! If you don't, you are encouraging them.

 

[shahlakh]

Thanks Ashley you really are cool and helpful.
I don't mean cool.............. thanda..........okay

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

hahahhahaha Thanks thanks.
BTW Be polite to them for 2-3 times, if they stop behaving like this, forigive them. But if they take your sweet attitude as your weakness, then show them who you are.
Don't let them insult you like this.

 

[shahlakh]

Yeah I know but how should I react with them? I mean should i ask them: "Why are you teasing me like that? huh. I mean what is your problem??

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

No. Umm whenever they do that, just get up and walk away from that place without saying anything. If they ask you, be polite but firm. Like say "I am not liking it. I hope you guys understand"

 

[shahlakh]

hmmm may be you are right. but that may offend them.

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

And whatever they are doing is offending you. Just try to be as polite as possible. But make sure that you are firm okay! I mean, your should say it as if you are requesting but say this in a way that they are forced to listen to you.

 

[shahlakh]

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM..............thanks dear. Well I shall take a demo of what you said but with Mr.green.HEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHE

 

[dragoninja98]

See no further i have the solution !
Refer to my experience :
I was sitting in the from row having the time of my life with my friends watching the Basketball match between my school and another campus
When this _____ started kicking me from behind....i ignored three times....Then we had a little mun maary after which he went at the back row and sat their
I told him that if he lured me one more time i would punch his nose into his face
He threw a nail at my head and then slapped me from behind
That was the final bell !
Adrenaline washed over me and i dont know how i got three rows ahead with a packed crowd but i was upon him
By then there was another of his friends with him
I took him to be a conspirer as well and took hold of both of them and started beating the crap out of the other guy
i literally slapped him 8-9 times andand was about to turn to the other one when around 50 of my friends pulled me away and ushered me into class
while the last sight nwas one of my friend banging the guy against the wall
Then our physics sir came and hollered "kinno garmi aay....kssay garmy hai"
and we went to the head master
=D
He was scared shit less and i enjoyed every bit of it !
We were warned of being suspended but i paid no heat...

So you learn:
1.From my mistake: dont let the people teasing you get the best of you
Go and slap em silly before things go out of hand
Tell em whose boss before something bad happens to you because of them
2. Get some respect...knock some badass punks out and you'll be having some
3. If you can't do the above go and explain the situation to the bully and tell him he's lying
(simple) !
4.Don't pay heat if you get caught by the teachers.....if you have a good reputation
You'll get of it easy !
And yeah i forgot the HM caught the boy and told him that you are the one responsible and told him to say sorry
You must have some mark in the school (not much easy in school but trust me)
Meet with juniors,seniors make friends with them all !
Hope i've helped =D

 

[scouserlfc]

the best way is just never the bullies get over you be patient dont show signs of getting mad at them and surely he will always leave u/

 

[shahlakh]

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM....................WEll thanks a lot guys

 

[dragoninja98]

did u try my idea ??

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

I have been facing this problem a lot but still i kept patience. But now i think I should ask this question from you guys.
I have seen many times friends trying to tease a student in pakistani schools.Like for example, in my school a friend of mine was escaping from a small boy who wanted to beat her as she did something with him, to us ne mujh per ishaara kertay hoi chohtay bachhay se kaha keh "Main ne nahi is ne kiya hai" This didn't only happen once. This has happened several times with me. They always try to make me a victim of something. I mean...........that is quite rude of them. Even one of my friends tried to bully me by calling me "maani", when I came new to this school.
But my friends appreciate me a lot by calling me pretty cute and sweet. My mother even told me that may be some of my friends are jealous of me as i am cute and pretty. That is why they are teasing me.
However i need your suggestions
Thank you.

well this happens !! this is called life !! I remember when I first time entered senior boys branch! Well many people tried to make me a victim of acts which got me into trouble but soon i became used to it and before you know it they stopped such acts! Well though I had fights with two boys who's head i had broken in the fight but the thing is just get use to it !!

 

[shahlakh]

Hmmmmm may be you are right!!! I think I should not take things so sensitively.
But how did you become use to it by the way?

 

[shahlakh]

And yeah may be the head that you broke was of mr. green as everyone can only see his face but not his body. :mrgreen:

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Hmmmmm may be you are right!!! I think I should not take things so sensitively.
But how did you become use to it by the way?

by not taking that thing seriously !! if they pull a prank on you just don't take it seriously or don't even bother telling them you feel bad !!

 

[scouserlfc]

EXACTLY DONT get in the company of these people and just dont show that u even care abt them.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

yeah !!!