When you are angry because of someone but can't punch that person, what should be done?

[krazer36]

Err... As the topic says it all, any suggestions!

 

[Sapphiresparkle]

it might sound lame or crazy but this is what I do
I imagine that person as the table in front of me and beat the table with shoes and take out all my anger on the table

 

[mercedes008]

As wr wb
Forgive them, do wuzu, seek refuge with Allah, that will help
קєคςє !!!

 

[PhyZac]

If standing sit down.
If sitting lay down.

Source --
Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood, Narrated Abu Dharr, r.a.
The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) said to us: When one of you becomes angry while standing, he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good; otherwise he should lie down.

And hadiths for Ghazi Tahir post.

As wr wb
Forgive them, do wuzu, seek refuge with Allah, that will help
קєคςє !!!

Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood, Narrated Atiyyah as-Sa'di, r.a.
AbuWa'il al-Qass said: We entered upon Urwah ibn Muhammad ibn as-Sa'di. A man spoke to him and made him angry. So he stood and performed ablution; he then returned and performed ablution, and said: My father told me on the authority of my grandfather Atiyyah who reported the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) as saying: Anger comes from the devil, the devil was created of fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when one of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution.

Hadith - Sahih Bukhari 8.136, Narrated Sulaiman bin Sarad, r.a.
Two men abused each other in front of the Prophet while we were sitting with him. One of the two abused his companion furiously and his face became red. The Prophet said, "I know a word (sentence) the saying of which will cause him to relax if this man says it. Only if he said, 'I seek refuge with Allah from Satan, the outcast.' " So they said to that (furious) man, "Don't you hear what the Prophet is saying?" He said, "I am not mad."

 

[krazer36]

it might sound lame or crazy but this is what I do
I imagine that person as the table in front of me and beat the table with shoes and take out all my anger on the table

Lol why ruin your own table when it isn't affecting that person in any way? Most probably that person won't even care But still thank-you for the suggestion!

As wr wb
Forgive them, do wuzu, seek refuge with Allah, that will help
קєคςє !!!

If standing sit down.
If sitting lay down.

Source --
Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood, Narrated Abu Dharr, r.a.
The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) said to us: When one of you becomes angry while standing, he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good; otherwise he should lie down.

And hadiths for Ghazi Tahir post.



Hadith - Sunan of Abu Dawood, Narrated Atiyyah as-Sa'di, r.a.
AbuWa'il al-Qass said: We entered upon Urwah ibn Muhammad ibn as-Sa'di. A man spoke to him and made him angry. So he stood and performed ablution; he then returned and performed ablution, and said: My father told me on the authority of my grandfather Atiyyah who reported the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) as saying: Anger comes from the devil, the devil was created of fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when one of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution.

Hadith - Sahih Bukhari 8.136, Narrated Sulaiman bin Sarad, r.a.
Two men abused each other in front of the Prophet while we were sitting with him. One of the two abused his companion furiously and his face became red. The Prophet said, "I know a word (sentence) the saying of which will cause him to relax if this man says it. Only if he said, 'I seek refuge with Allah from Satan, the outcast.' " So they said to that (furious) man, "Don't you hear what the Prophet is saying?" He said, "I am not mad."

Thank-you I understand this helps and I do this mostly. But what to do when the next person doesn't understand and keeps making you angry? You can't even stop talking to that person because he/she is not just someone random.

 

[paridhi shobhana]

usually i dnt get angry to angry to anyone but ifever i dnt like someone's behavior i wud tell dat person very cleary becoz spreding rumours just becoz i gt angry doesnt help dat person at any way

 

[krazer36]

usually i dnt get angry to angry to anyone but ifever i dnt like someone's behavior i wud tell dat person very cleary becoz spreding rumours just becoz i gt angry doesnt help dat person at any way

Lol not every person takes the hint even if we display it on a macro sized board and write it in bold letters But thank-you ...

 

[paridhi shobhana]

Lol not every person takes the hint even if we display it on a macro sized board and write it in bold letters But thank-you ...

iam usually diz way maybe dats da main reason ppl like me alot by the grace of God i have lot of patience i wish others had it too we youngsters dont have much bt iam sure we will learn how to wen we becum a bit more mature so Keep praying

 

[..sacrifice4Revenge..]

forgive and forget​

have no regret​

 

[krazer36]

iam usually diz way maybe dats da main reason ppl like me alot by the grace of God i have lot of patience i wish others had it too we youngsters dont have much bt iam sure we will learn how to wen we becum a bit more mature so Keep praying

Haha kiddo, thank-you for your suggestions but life is not fun every-time Everyone has patience, it's the limits that are determined, and seriously when somebody crosses that limit then we seek guidance For me at-least, discussing it with someone relieves my anger/annoyance! Then I pray to Allah to guide those who don't understand

 

[paridhi shobhana]

Haha kiddo, thank-you for your suggestions but life is not fun every-time Everyone has patience, it's the limits that are determined, and seriously when somebody crosses that limit then we seek guidance For me at-least, discussing it with someone relieves my anger/annoyance! Then I pray to Allah to guide those who don't understand

i will tell u something frankly if u feel like punching some one if u really gt angry for a VERY GOOD REASON then PUNCH

 

[krazer36]

i will tell u something frankly if u feel like punching some one if u really gt angry for a VERY GOOD REASON then PUNCH

I wish .. But that person is almost 350 Km away .... Haha

 

[paridhi shobhana]

I wish .. But that person is almost 350 Km away .... Haha

number dial karo and tell wateva u want to tell u will fell better lolz

 

[krazer36]

number dial karo and tell wateva u want to tell u will fell better lolz

Haha chorro ab tou mera ghussa utar bhi gaya Ab I am going to transfer myself to the mute mode, lol the best torture ever. I won't reply, i won't text or call and I won't do anything haha. InshAllah that person will realize their mistake them-self

 

[paridhi shobhana]

Haha chorro ab tou mera ghussa utar bhi gaya Ab I am going to transfer myself to the mute mode, lol the best torture ever. I won't reply, i won't text or call and I won't do anything haha. InshAllah that person will realize their mistake them-self

Inshallah everything will be fine anyways tc

 

[krazer36]

Inshallah everything will be fine anyways tc

Ameen ... And you too, take care and pray for the exams

 

[robinhoodmustafa]

Forgive Him/Her.See the difference between the one who is fighting and the calm one.

 

[mercedes008]

Don't fall to her level

 

[robinhoodmustafa]

Err... As the topic says it all, any suggestions!

One More Solution ..... Tell your Parent's and than Get Him/her suspended. :unknown Person"

 

[fatikhalid]

see wen u r angry at sum1 y d u wana hurt urself by punching them??.. calm down tell urself y r u bothering! seriously wen u r being angry is the next person being affected ?? does he care?? no na so y r u burning ur mind?? keep calm dont let others affect the way u feel !!!...live ur lyf y r u giving the remote of ur lyf to others?? might sound off topic but wanted to calm u down!..