How do you deal the negativity around you?

[selgomez]

Being in a student myself, i've often become uncomfortable with my peers who have taken a turn on their personalities due to various pressures and stress at school. What forms of negativity do you have to face daily and how do you cope with it?
Share your experiences so that others may benefit!

 

[Patriot]

try to change it

 

[DANGERBP]

sleep ! =p

 

[badrobot14]

Being in a student myself, i've often become uncomfortable with my peers who have taken a turn on their personalities due to various pressures and stress at school. What forms of negativity do you have to face daily and how do you cope with it?
Share your experiences so that others may benefit!

Well I try to hang more around peers that are better than me... not everyone's that negative, there are always good ppl around...

 

[selgomez]

try to change it

How do you change it when its a person thats making you uncomfortable? Not everyone reacts kindly to opinions when you give it to them.

 

[AlphaCentauri]

How do you change it when its a person thats making you uncomfortable? Not everyone reacts kindly to opinions when you give it to them.

If you gave constructive opinions, you don't have to bother if it wasn't taken kindly. Your peace dwells only in your mind.

 

[rz123]

Strong self belief and by my calm head. Nice people around to guide me and also through the people who inspire me, dat is how i deal with the negativity around.

 

[Epiphany]

Being in a student myself, i've often become uncomfortable with my peers who have taken a turn on their personalities due to various pressures and stress at school. What forms of negativity do you have to face daily and how do you cope with it?
Share your experiences so that others may benefit!

I write.
It helps heal all the wounds.

 

[selgomez]

Thats a lot of good advice. Thanks everyone!
A friend suggested something to me today: everyday when you wake up, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself today will be a good. Then you will see how everything works out for you automatically. Your positive mindset is your biggest support at all times!

 

[leadingguy]

well what is this all abt?? pressure at studies, or a general talk abt people bothering us??

 

[black_berry]

music

 

[mintchocolate4567]

well,i get to face this kinda stuff a lot,but i ignore them,it's the best way to get along with it.

 

[selgomez]

well what is this all abt?? pressure at studies, or a general talk abt people bothering us??

Its a combo of the two. Its completely onto you how you want answer .. different people, different situations.

 

[selgomez]

well,i get to face this kinda stuff a lot,but i ignore them,it's the best way to get along with it.

Power to you then!

 

[Iridescent]

IGNORE the negativity!

 

[princessanum]

Aoa wr wb: ​

You should maintain a positive boundary.​

Some people might tell you to visualize a bright white light around you to maintain a positive space when other people enter it with negativity. This doesn’t actually work for me because I respond better to ideas in words than visualizations. So I tell myself this, “I can only control the positive space I create around myself.”​

Then when I interact with this person, I try to do two things, in this order of importance:​

• Protect the positive space around me. When their negativity is too strong to protect it, I need to walk away.
• Help them feel more positive, not act more positive–which is more likely to create the desired result.