Is having a girl friend worthwhile at this age?

[Benjamin]

I just wonder why my parents recommend me to have an affair after A levels. Why not before?
Besides control over your instincts is love poisonous?

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Hmm... It totally depends upon you. I'll advice you to follow your parents suggestions because they know you better than we do.
But still, here are few things you might consider before getting into a relationship.
How important are your studies for you? And if they really matter, then would you be able to maintain your grades? Because there is a high risk that they may fall. If you people fight or something then would you still be able to pay attention to your studies?
Are you parents going to get hurt?
Would you have enough time for that girl (because she is supposed to be treated fairly) and for all other important things?

First of all, ask yourself why do you want to get involve into a relationship? Is it just because of peer pressure?
Weigh all the advantages and disadvantages of getting involved into a relationship and then decide that that which way you should to go.

 

[princesszahra]

I believe ur parents r right!!i dont even have it after A levels!! life is happy without it!! u have no restrictions!!

 

[Tweety-Angie]

Hmm... It totally depends upon you. I'll advice you to follow your parents suggestions because they know you better than we do.
But still, here are few things you might consider before getting into a relationship.
How important are your studies for you? And if they really matter, then would you be able to maintain your grades? Because there is a high risk that they may fall. If you people fight or something then would you still be able to pay attention to your studies?
Are you parents going to get hurt?
Would you have enough time for that girl (because she is supposed to be treated fairly) and for all other important things?

First of all, ask yourself why do you want to get involve into a relationship? Is it just because of peer pressure?
Weigh all the advantages and disadvantages of getting involved into a relationship and then decide that that which way you should to go.

I totally agree with you PrInCeSs AshLeY

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Thanks girl.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Hmm... It totally depends upon you. I'll advice you to follow your parents suggestions because they know you better than we do.
But still, here are few things you might consider before getting into a relationship.
How important are your studies for you? And if they really matter, then would you be able to maintain your grades? Because there is a high risk that they may fall. If you people fight or something then would you still be able to pay attention to your studies?
Are you parents going to get hurt?
Would you have enough time for that girl (because she is supposed to be treated fairly) and for all other important things?

First of all, ask yourself why do you want to get involve into a relationship? Is it just because of peer pressure?
Weigh all the advantages and disadvantages of getting involved into a relationship and then decide that that which way you should to go.

Wah Wah !! Eye opener

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

hahahhaha Kya hogaya? Do you agree?

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Well i think the people who go into relationships should not be children which i m refering to people below A levels as they think of big dreams and when their parents find out about them their dreams are destroyed !!

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

So you have to consider all possibilities na.
You have to plan out your future and your priorities.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

But why dream of something which will never be reality !!

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Well, I think "Don't plan for your future, just dream"
When you PLAN for something, you plan according to things which are available/possible.
But when you DREAM, you make things possible.
You see the difference?
And about getting into a relationship, totally depends on YOU. Are you really ready or not?

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

well but even if we plan our plans can be turned down by our parents !! yeah it depends whether your ready or not !!

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Yes, because they know better.
Well, so you should be ready for that.
Like I said, consider all possibilities.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Well I haven't been in a relationship so I don't know about it but i see my friends who cry and say " SALMAN Salman woh chor ka chali gayi "

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Yehi tou. Yeh true relationship nahi hai.
I am talking about a serious and true one. Not about time pass.
BTW aapke friends kaunse shareef hai?

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Well i will PM u my story jis k baad I didn't care about relationship !!

 

[PrInCeSs AshLeY]

Hmm Okay okay.

 

[scouserlfc]

SOME SERIOUS STUFF GOInG OM HERE.

 

[Tweety-Angie]

Well i will PM u my story jis k baad I didn't care about relationship !!

Let us know too ur story Salman!! :mrgreen:

 

[Tweety-Angie]

Better not to have any relationship with anyone unless you complete your study, cuz u wont be able to concentrate upon ur studies completely!
What matters is ur career, ur parents who raised u up, who have faith upon u...
Rest of all, ur choice!! Betta luck guys..