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Trying to impress people

champ-student

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Hello folks!!:coffee:
Here again m stuck at a problem...:sleep:
does anyone else feels like they have to impress everyone?
in real life...? Your friends etc?:cautious:





actually, that happens with me...whenever m with school friends I try not to be me (i know its bad but..:unsure: .)...I try be funny and fake all the time..:oops: .coz when i am me...i feel inferior ...it feels like thy are much cooler than me....

the thing is m not a girly girl at all..m sort of tomboys rough and tough... but good at studies...but while acting fake i have to take part in their damn gossips, act like i agree with them n all...
but trying to be "cool" ..I have often disappointed some teachers .. :(
Any help?
 
Aly Emran

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champ-student said:
Hello folks!!:coffee:
Here again m stuck at a problem...:sleep:
does anyone else feels like they have to impress everyone?
in real life...? Your friends etc?:cautious:





actually, that happens with me...whenever m with school friends I try not to be me (i know its bad but..:unsure: .)...I try be funny and fake all the time..:oops: .coz when i am me...i feel inferior ...it feels like thy are much cooler than me....

the thing is m not a girly girl at all..m sort of tomboys rough and tough... but good at studies...but while acting fake i have to take part in their damn gossips, act like i agree with them n all...
but trying to be "cool" ..I have often disappointed some teachers .. :(
Any help?
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making other's laugh is good u carry on! me doing same :D
 
Aly Emran

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champ-student said:
Hello folks!!:coffee:
Here again m stuck at a problem...:sleep:
does anyone else feels like they have to impress everyone?
in real life...? Your friends etc?:cautious:





actually, that happens with me...whenever m with school friends I try not to be me (i know its bad but..:unsure: .)...I try be funny and fake all the time..:oops: .coz when i am me...i feel inferior ...it feels like thy are much cooler than me....

the thing is m not a girly girl at all..m sort of tomboys rough and tough... but good at studies...but while acting fake i have to take part in their damn gossips, act like i agree with them n all...
but trying to be "cool" ..I have often disappointed some teachers .. :(
Any help?
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and do take part in gossips or ur just a geek. trust me no offence but later in ur practical life, ur social and educational, both would value cox in real life u have to have friends by force and u would have to have experience on how to deal with others. dont be a kitaabi keera! That doesnt mean u stop studying and enjoy life to an extreme. Hope u understand
Ps: I am serious this time :p
 
Aly Emran

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danial 234 said:
it is da opposite of seriously. why do u tk evry thing as a joke. hope u understand nw
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A simple answer:
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Hassaan Sami

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  • Dude, it's called 'PEER PRESSURE'
  • Make other's laugh, as long as it does not involve insulting anyone else
  • As for their 'damn' gossips, don't say anything. Just don't disagree with them. Listen to their crap, but don't add your own crap into the conversation. That way, neither will you join in their gossip, nor will they feel like you disagree with them a lot.
  • As for the disappointing teacher's part, let me tell you, it's not worth it. I talk with experience. I am a good student. But, sometimes during class, my friends start talking to me, and I don't have the courage to ask them to be quiet. So, I start talking too, and then I end up getting caught for talking during class. This way, I've also disappointed teachers and ruined my reputation among them.
Therefore, do what you have to do to impress your friends as long as it does not ruin your reputation.
Hope that helped.
P.S I'm relatively new so you might think that I don't get to talk all big or mature.So if you minded this, please know that it was never my intent.
 
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