What to do and what not to.

[Epiphany]

Of all the different questions and their complicated answers and responses, this is, perhaps the most difficult question in every person's life. The stage of choosing between two points, similar to a crossroad, deciding one's way out matters most. Then again, never do the people have the same answers, all mere a bunch of different opinions, making them land at different places. Reason being the fact that this particular question does not have a fact-based answer.

Agree?

 

[..sacrifice4Revenge..]

Of all the different questions and their complicated answers and responses, this is, perhaps the most difficult question in every person's life. The stage of choosing between two points, similar to a crossroad, deciding one's way out matters most. Then again, never do the people have the same answers, all mere a bunch of different opinions, making them land at different places. Reason being the fact that this particular question does not have a fact-based answer.

Agree?

Agreed
decision making is my weakness, always double minded

 

[Epiphany]

Agreed
decision making is my weakness, always double minded

It's every one's weakness in my opinion. And I think that's the point that matters most. One decision, all your life depends upon it, Make a mistake, misery awaits.

 

[..sacrifice4Revenge..]

It's every one's weakness in my opinion. And I think that's the point that matters most. One decision, all your life depends upon it, Make a mistake, misery awaits.

agreed, but some ppl rush to make decisions, its a 50% chance of success in failure, but ppl like me who wait to see how things go and then make a decision arent any better, u cant guarantee that ur decision will be right

 

[Epiphany]

agreed, but some ppl rush to make decisions, its a 50% chance of success in failure, but ppl like me who wait to see how things go and then make a decision arent any better, u cant guarantee that ur decision will be right

Exactly. One does what one feels right and doesn't really give much thinking to its consequences. Suffers later. Then again, it's all based chance. =)

 

[..sacrifice4Revenge..]

Exactly. One does what one feels right and doesn't really give much thinking to its consequences. Suffers later. Then again, it's all based chance. =)

btw... wat kind of decision u want to make? tell me if i am of any assistance

 

[Epiphany]

btw... wat kind of decision u want to make? tell me if i am of any assistance

Ah no. I don't have to make any decisions as of now. Only wanted to discuss the subject generally. Thanks though. =)

 

[badrobot14]

Of all the different questions and their complicated answers and responses, this is, perhaps the most difficult question in every person's life. The stage of choosing between two points, similar to a crossroad, deciding one's way out matters most. Then again, never do the people have the same answers, all mere a bunch of different opinions, making them land at different places. Reason being the fact that this particular question does not have a fact-based answer.

Agree?

Ever herd of Istikhara??? it is Islam's solution for this problem...
Love Islam, Alhamdulillah!!!

http://muslimmatters.org/2012/01/13/abdul-nasir-jangda-istikharah-how-to-and-why-2/

 

[Epiphany]

Ever herd of Istikhara??? it is Islam's solution for this problem...
Love Islam, Alhamdulillah!!!

http://muslimmatters.org/2012/01/13/abdul-nasir-jangda-istikharah-how-to-and-why-2/

I hadn't by now. Thanks.

 

[HauteHijabii]

Of all the different questions and their complicated answers and responses, this is, perhaps the most difficult question in every person's life. The stage of choosing between two points, similar to a crossroad, deciding one's way out matters most. Then again, never do the people have the same answers, all mere a bunch of different opinions, making them land at different places. Reason being the fact that this particular question does not have a fact-based answer.

Agree?

This is the most difficult thing eva!!
i rmbr prayin istikaharah once..an am really happy abt the decision i made afterwards..mayb shud do it more often!

 

[Epiphany]

This is the most difficult thing eva!!
i rmbr prayin istikaharah once..an am really happy abt the decision i made afterwards..mayb shud do it more often!

Exactly.
I'll try too. Have high hopes it'll work out.

 

[HauteHijabii]

Exactly.
I'll try too. Have high hopes it'll work out.

Try it..
Am seriously very happy abt the results I got!! and it was sth dat was best for ma deen and the world..just as de dua suugests!

 

[étudiante]

Ever herd of Istikhara??? it is Islam's solution for this problem...
Love Islam, Alhamdulillah!!!

http://muslimmatters.org/2012/01/13/abdul-nasir-jangda-istikharah-how-to-and-why-2/

True! It takes SUCH a big load off your mind, and u have the confidence that it WILL go well Inshallah Even though at that moment it may sometimes feel like "I wish the other choice came up" (experience ) or something, as time passes, we realize why this choice was the most suitable one

 

[whitetiger64]

Decision-making is very tough! But sumtimes when we do make a choice, and see the results not in our favour, we may feel dejected and think 'what if...?' But later on, we will see that the small disappointments we get in lyf are all for a greater good. Allah has planned for us a beautiful plan, which we don't know of and the best we can do is trust in Him for every decision we make, even if it was a very small and insignificant one! That's why, Alhamdulillah, Prophet (p.b.u.h) has shown us the best way to ask Allah: through Istikharah!