ATTENTION PLEASE -- All Muslim Brothers and Sisters

[badrobot14]

i dont shake hands with girls , in such a case my meaning is bad, sometimes these girls come and want to shake hands with me and say salam and hru, should i ignore them ???
in my biology tuition , there is girls, they come and want to shake hands with me , sometimes i shake hands with them and so on , if in the class, she asked me a question about smthin in bio, should i not talk to her ?

There is a hadeeth (narration of an event) from Ma'qil ibn Yassar, saying; The prophet, peace be upon him said, "It is better for you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle than to touch the hand of a woman who is not permissible to you."
[At-Tabarani in "Al Kabir, #486. Shaikh Albani said in Sahih al-Jaami' it is sahih #5045]

 

[XPFMember]

Poll Option: I knew it's wrong. But I promise myself, I'd not repeat that again, to seek Allah's pleasure, inshaAllah.

No need to fight... Just repent and start from now on...
You're saying it's difficult (not to one specific..speaking 4 all), just ask urself who's important to you? Allah or your friend? Shall you leave Allah's order for your friend's or ur own pleasure? of course no..just ask such questions to urself and try to motivate urself to seek Allah's pleasure! Ok?

Someone's profile post: Do not let the laughter of this world be tears in the next..

 

[badrobot14]

i am shaking hands with muslim girls , now what should i tell them ?

Tell them about the hadith:
There is a hadeeth (narration of an event) from Ma'qil ibn Yassar, saying; The prophet, peace be upon him said, "It is better for you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle than to touch the hand of a woman who is not permissible to you."
[At-Tabarani in "Al Kabir, #486. Shaikh Albani said in Sahih al-Jaami' it is sahih #5045]

 

[XPFMember]

i am shaking hands with muslim girls , now what should i tell them ?

Inform them and tell them the Hadith...tell them we're all muslims so we should take care about it!

 

[Gergawy]

XPFMember , what u r asking from us to do is extremely hard :S

 

[Gergawy]

if i told this to the girls , they will simply tell you everything i said at the beginning of the thread

 

[XPFMember]

XPFMember , what u r asking from us to do is extremely hard :S

Yup...and it'll remain hard..
Verily Satan is an enemy to you: so treat him as an enemy. He only invites his adherents, that they may become Companions of the Blazing Fire. (6) (surah fatir

 

[XPFMember]

if i told this to the girls , they will simply tell you everything i said at the beginning of the thread

u wanna care abt whom? what they think? or ..?
You tell them...that's it..It's their matters with Allah....and then you keep urself away from the evil...
but u gotta tell them too...that's ones responsibility!

 

[alphabravocharlie]

A question, can we talk to them to cheer them up like if they are sad?

 

[XPFMember]

A question, can we talk to them to cheer them up like if they are sad?

nopee...that becomes the same thing..u talking for fun to them!

 

[DANGERBP]

hmmmm :/ its kindof hard to think of it
how can you guyz live in the same frkn world nd never talk to each other !
you cant try to coz its hard to work with this !

 

[alphabravocharlie]

i believe that, sadly, we have sunk too far in this quicksand known as the westernization, to the point of no return,

 

[Gergawy]

i will try stop talking with them , but definitely i will fail

 

[XPFMember]

hmmmm :/ its kindof hard to think of it
how can you guyz live in the same frkn world nd never talk to each other !
you cant try to coz its hard to work with this !

But Our Lord..created us ..who better than Him can know what's good for us?
Everything is possible..and is the Best for us!!

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[XPFMember]

i believe that, sadly, we have sunk too far in this quicksand known as the westernization, to the point of no return,

i will try stop talking with them , but definitely i will fail

You wont!
If you wholeheartedly ask for Allah's forgiveness and mercy, he'd definitely forgive you...and help you!

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[Gergawy]

all what u are saying i heard about it and i know it , but its not the most haram thing to talk to girls, whats the matter if i made a girl laugh , Rasul Allah said "The smile infront of ur brother is a Sadaqa"

 

[XPFMember]

all what u are saying i heard about it and i know it , but its not the most haram thing to talk to girls, whats the matter if i made a girl laugh , Rasul Allah said "The smile infront of ur brother is a Sadaqa"

yeah but whats the ruling about the opposite gender?

 

[Gergawy]

yeah but whats the ruling about the opposite gender?

you made me shut up forcefully

 

[XPFMember]

you made me shut up forcefully

i didnt mean to do that...but we really gotta think about it..
we cannot quote the Hadith and Ayats out of context...!!