Love

[oldfashionedgirl]

ye

You again? It was fun but some people were pretty angry about it

yeah i've noticed that all the oldies here at Xtremepapers tend to get angry pretty soon

 

[Epiphany]

I never asked who was arguing. :]
And don't be sorry, just stay on topic.

Umm. Then why post when it's quite clear no one's arguing?
And that sorry wasn't to be taken in literal sense.

 

[Epiphany]

Love is a chemical reaction.

Umm. Is it wise to define love merely as a 'chemical reaction'?

 

[mercedes008]

Umm. Is it wise to define love merely as a 'chemical reaction'?

is it unwise?

 

[Tayyaba Siddiqua]

And haven't I been saying all along that these 'girlfriend/boyfriend' relationships are crap and cannot be considered 'love.'

So True!!

 

[Tayyaba Siddiqua]

Is 'possesiveness' love or 'craziness'?

I guess it is rather like possesiveness!!

 

[Epiphany]

is it unwise?

Have any doubts?
Love is something unmeasurable, indefinable, of coarse for those who think love actually exists.

 

[oldfashionedgirl]

Have any doubts?
Love is something unmeasurable, indefinable, of coarse for those who think love actually exists.

your views on love come from observation or experience? i think from the latter

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Umm. Then why post when it's quite clear no one's arguing?
And that sorry wasn't to be taken in literal sense.

Because I know people were.
I know, but sorry is after all a sorry

 

[badrobot14]

Life is too short to hide your feelings. Don’t be afraid to say what you feel.

no.. sometimes you have to hide stuff... one of the primary differences b/w an animal and a human is that humans can control themselves... the root of word 'aqal' (intellect) is from the word used for rope that the arab used to tie the camel with... (they'd keep it on their head ) so 'aqal' is a means of restraint.
so at times you've to hide fear inside to give strength to others around.. same way let's say u saw some1 of opp gender n u really liked him/her.. If you can marry them, sure do marry... if you can't it's better to hold urself back, not let anyone know... to not hurt them, their family and you.... to not give in to desires.. humans have control on desires.. animals don't. IMHO.

 

[aTraveller]

Great feelings shown dude.But what is the matter with 4 months period.

That's what we learn from facebook
It was a fact, if you have a crush on someone for more than 4 months, you already love them or something like that.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Great feelings shown dude.But what is the matter with 4 months period.

It's just what I read in the facts. If you love someone for period more than 4 months that that's not a crush. Basically 95% of times the crush last only 4 months. Not more that that.

 

[AlphaCentauri]

It's just what I read in the facts. If you love someone for period more than 4 months that that's not a crush. Basically 95% of times the crush last only 4 months. Not more that that.

But am sure it takes much more time to nurture true love. True love will surface only in specific circumstances. 4 months isn't enough to accommodate all this. People can give of their time in 4 months, but they rarely get a chance to give of themselves.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

But am sure it takes much more time to nurture true love. True love will surface only in specific circumstances. 4 months isn't enough to accommodate all this. People can give of their time in 4 months, but they rarely get a chance to give of themselves.

That's what I read.

 

[AlphaCentauri]

That's what I read.

And lived* too?

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

And lived* too?

Ahan! Experienced it.

 

[AlphaCentauri]

Ahan! Experienced it.

4 months? 120 days? Are you kidding me? Except if you spent all 120 days with her or you knew her from earlier.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

4 months? 120 days? Are you kidding me? Except if you spent all 120 days with her or you knew her from earlier.

That's getting a little private so let's stop. And I didn't mean I spend 'just' 120 days.

 

[AlphaCentauri]

That's getting a little private so let's stop. And I didn't mean I spend 'just' 120 days.

Fine. I just don't think it right of whoever wrote it to let malleable minds get deceived by time. It's fine.

 

[SalmanPakRocks]

Fine. I just don't think it right of whoever wrote it to let malleable minds get deceived by time. It's fine.

I guess we both mis-understood each other. Yeah I wasn't talking that 120 day thing was real.
Back on topic.