Life long lesson(s) you've learnt?

[Master Minds]

Never take any decision in anger and never make any promise in the state of happiness.

 

[Aqsa Saleem]

Life long lessons?
Oh life teaches you lessons everyday!
For today : forgive and forget. Because there's nothing hidden in grudges. Let go things which once hurted you.
Benefit? You'll be happier and lighter!

 

[izzahzainab]

Life long lessons?
Oh life teaches you lessons everyday!
For today : forgive and forget. Because there's nothing hidden in grudges. Let go things which once hurted you.
Benefit? You'll be happier and lighter!

Forget it enough to get over it.
Remember it enough to not let it happen again

 

[Iishrak]

I'm still waiting to learn one

 

[Master Minds]

the person who does someone's backbiting with you, does your backbiting with someone else.

 

[VelaneDeBeaute]

'Always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.'

P.S.Awesome thread, and to be honest, there were some 'worthy' contributions.

 

[Master Minds]

'Always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.'

P.S.Awesome thread, and to be honest, there were some 'worthy' contributions.

this world is mortal, don't love anyone to the extent that when u lose him, u fail to bear the pain.

 

[littlecloud11]

Hope is the strongest weapon a believer can possess!

Guess i don't agree with you on that.

(I thought the strongest weapon was faith =|)

 

[littlecloud11]

tbh, both of you are right. Hope isn't a solid ground to trust and may lead nowhere but it still makes the fall a little bit more scenic

Really? if anything else I think it makes the fall that much more harder to bear. See, hope or optimism provides us with the ever persisting illusion of well-being, of a time when things wouldn't be so hard and intolerable for the bearer. It almost acts like a shade over our eyes, one that's trying to blind us to the obvious.
However, all this being said, I don't think it's entirely voluntary and despite all odds we do end up having that tiny flicker of hope in all of us. =/

 

[Master Minds]

when Allah closes all doors and shuts all windows, may be Allah want to save u from the storm outside. So always trust Allah and keep on stepping forward in life.

 

[Master Minds]

be friends with stupid people, u will always feel like a genius

 

[izzahzainab]

 

[Iishrak]

Guess i don't agree with you on that.

(I thought the strongest weapon was faith =|)

faith is the shield, hope is the weapon , makes sense?

 

[Era]

never run after your desire
it will leave u with nothing but regret and sorrow

 

[littlecloud11]

faith is the shield, hope is the weapon , makes sense?

Hope would be the weapon if self-destruction is intended.

 

[Master Minds]

never be proud of ur achievements nor challange anyones humbleness. u never know his humbleness hides his better skills and achievements than urs.

 

[Master Minds]

never commit anything on anyone else behalf, maybe he has something more important than u and ur commitment.

 

[VelaneDeBeaute]

this world is mortal, don't love anyone to the extent that when u lose him, u fail to bear the pain.

I agree -but maybe you perceived my message wrong!

 

[Aqsa Saleem]

there is something i used to read, but never understood what it actually meant, now i do. sharing it here

"Ae ibn-e-adam, eik teri chahat hai, aur eik meri chahat hai,
ho ga wohi jo meri chahat hai,
pas agar tu ne sapurd kr dia usmein jo meri chahat hai,
to wo bhi mein tujhay de dun ga jo teri chahat hai,
aggar tu ne mukhalfat ki us mein jo meri chahat hai,
to mein thaka dun ga usmein jo teri chahat hai,
phir ho ga wohi jo meri chahat hai"

adding to it : we being muslims should have a strong faith on what Allah decides for us. We might cry, yell and have grudges about whatever bad happens to us, but, He will never let you fall apart. He will never give you something which is not good for you, even if you cry a river for it. And should we complain He does not love us? No.

 

[Z.S.M]

When you have an arguement with parents, don't talk-back! It will make everything worse for you!

When they cool down, approach them and deliver your side of the story in a calm and explainatory manner.

Things will work out.