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Question: Explain the importance of:
• Hazrat Bibi Khadija (R.A) during the lifetime of the Prophet (S.A.W)
• Hazrat Bibi Ayesha (R.A) following Prophet (S.A.W) death.
Hazrat Khadija (R.A):
Hazrat Bibi Khadija (R.A) was the daughter of Khwailid Ibne Assad of Banu Assad of Quraish tribe. She shares the ancestor Qussay with the Prophet (S.A.W). Khadija (R.A) was called ‘At-Tahira’ (the pure one) due to her virtuous character and was called ‘Qubra’ later after her death as she was the eldest wife of Holy Prophet (S.A.W). Holy Prophet (S.A.W) was 25 years old and Hazrat Bibi Khadija (R.A) was 40 years old when they got married. Hazrat Bibi Khadija (R.A) bore 6children of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) namely Al-Qasim (R.A), Zainab (R.A), Ruqaya (R.A), Umm-e-Kulsum (R.A), Fatimah (R.A) and Abdullah (R.A). She was the first wife of Holy Prophet (S.A.W) and first woman to accept Islam. When Muhammad (S.A.W) was away in seclusion in the cave of Hira she used to bring food and water for him in the cave of Hira before the Prophet Hood. Whenever, he was late coming home she used to send servants to meet him (S.A.W). This gave the Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) moral support that encourage him and also strengthen his financial support that allowed him time for more thought and meditation.
After the first revelation she was the one who comforted him by saying “You always helped the poor and needy and never harmed any one. Allah will not leave you astray” (Sahih Bukhari) Allah loved this consoling of Hazrat Khadija so much that He describes her in Surah Duha verse no. 8. She always believed in him that encourage him when he met opposition and persecution of the Quraish and she always stood by his side with honor and patience during this persecution, even when early Muslims were under siege in Shaib-e-Abi Talib, she was too went under siege with the Holy Prophet (S.A.W) and stayed there for 2 to 3 years. Hazrat Khadija (R.A) never deserted him even though it caused her suffering. After 25 years of happy marriage, 3 years before Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) great migration she passed away at the age of 65 and this year in which Khadija tul-Qubra passed away, the Holy Prophet (S.A.W) called this year as the year of Grief (Am-al-Huzan). The Holy Prophet (S.A.W) remembered her in these words “She believed in me when others disbelieved, and confirmed my truthfulness and others called be soothsayer” (Sahih Bukhari). Once he said to Hazrat Ayesha (R.A) “Khadija’s love is given to me by Allah (SWT).” (Sahih Bukhari)
Hazrat Bibi Ayesha (R.A): During Prophet (S.A.W)’s Life time
The life of Hazrat Aisha (R.A) is proof that a woman can be far more learned than men and that she can be the teacher of scholars and experts. Her life is also proof that the same woman can be totally feminine and be a source of pleasure, joy and comfort to her husband.
In her youth, already known for her striking beauty and her formidable memory, she came under the loving care and attention of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) himself. As his wife and close companion she acquired from him knowledge and insight such as no woman has acquired. Hazrat Aisha Siddiqa bint Al Siddiq is the second most beloved wife of the Prophet Muhmmad (S.A.W) after his first wife Khadija (R.A). As her nickname implies, she was the daughter of Abu Bakr Al Siddiq the closest friend of the Prophet and his first successor or caliph. She is given the title "Siddiqa" because of an incident after which God Almighty testified to her honesty, trustworthiness and purity. Books of Seerah tell us about it as the following: When the Prophet returned victorious from the battle of Bani Al Mustaliq, Aisha was accompanying him. On its way back to Madinah, not very far away from it the army stopped part of the night; then it was allowed to continue the journey which the army did until it entered Madinah. The camel of Aisha was led to her house with her small cabin on its back. To the astonishment of all onlookers Aisha was not there. So the news spread like fire; and the Prophet and his companions started to search everywhere; after a short while, however, Aisha was seen riding another camel led by a companion called Safwan Ibn Muattil Al Salami. At that very moment the leader of the hypocrites Abdullah bin ubay bin Salool accursed her for fornication this was indeed an extremely hard time not only for Aisha and her father Abu Bakr Al Siddiq but for the Prophet as well who approached Aisha and said: If you committed anything, then confess it and repent to God who will forgive you.
These statements only increased the sufferings of Aisha so much so that she fell seriously ill. It was only the Divine revelation that acquitted her and declared her innocence and purity. This took place after a whole month of adversity and hardship. That is why Aisha deserved the title of Siddiqa, the truthful, because God Almighty testified to her honesty. She was distinguished for her virtues – piety learning, wisdom, simplicity, generosity and the care with which she safeguarded and faithfully reported the religious sermons of the Holy Prophet (S.A.W). She bravely criticized the thing that she thought against Islam. Her simplicity and modesty serve as a guiding light to all the Muslim ladies of the world. There were hardly three successive days during the life time of her husband (S.A.W), when Hazrat Ayesha (RA) had a full meal. The night when the Holy Prophet (S.A.W) breathed his last she had no light to lighten her lamp, nor anything to eat.
After Prophet (S.A.W)’s demise
Hazrat Ayesha (RA) was blessed with an amazing memory. She listened to the lectures given by the Holy Prophet (SA.W.) to the delegates and other people most attentively. Sometimes she asked the opinion of her husband (S.A.W) on delicate matters relating to Islam. This secured her position as the most authentic reporter and scholar of the tradition of him (S.A.W). Hazrat Ayesha (RA) remained with Holy Prophet (S.A.W) for ten years.
She was a distinguished woman in the Islamic science of Hadis, and Ulloom-ul-Quran. She had a photographic memory, thanks to her intelligence, understanding, and desire for learning, good memory that’s why she remembered more than 2 thousand Hadis from Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W). After Prophet’s (S.A.W) death large number of companions and successors visited her and sort her advice, particularly in the field of ‘Fiqh’ and Hadis. She was recognized as an important source of teachings of Islam after the death of Holy Prophet (S.A.W). She played a significant part in important decisions made in early years and she was one of the companions to issue the highest number of ‘Fatawah’. She became one of the seven companions to transmit the greatest number of Hadis. After Hazrat Usman (R.A) was martyred, she demanded the punishment from Khalifa Hazrat Ali (R.A) which led to a discord; some would say that her part in revolt of Hazrat Zubair and Hazrat Talha (R.A) caused the final split in the Muslim community no one has the right to judge or say anything against them as Allah Himself said for them in the Quran: "Vanguard (of Islam) the first of those who forsook (their homes) and those who gave them aid and (also) those who follow them in (all) good deeds, well pleased is Allah with them as are they with Him........” (9:100). The Holy Prophet (S.A.W) said “Don’t rebuke my companions; If someone of you spends as much gold as Uhad, he will not reach the reward of ‘one mud’ of anyone of them, nor half of it” (Agreed Upon).. Hazrat Ayesha (R.A) lived for another 47 years after the death of Prophet (S.A.W) and died in 57 or 58 year A.H, when she was 66 years old and she was buried in Jannat-ul-Baqi.