badrobot14
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I was waiting to see if this would end here but, I now wish to speak.... (and I dislike debating on Fiqh issues...)
AsSalamu Allaikum Wr wb,
Soldier313 look I really like most of your posts here, may Allah reward you... Aameen.. the thing is Quran tells us "...And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and aggression. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is severe in penalty." (5:2) so I cannot agree with you here...
Instead of taking the long route of discussing narrations with you and how sahih bukhari and muslim are authentic and what refrences you quoted can never be used against it; I say lets just stop and let Allah's book speak for itself!
You see, according to the Quran, when a man and woman marry each other, they become “fortified”, especially the woman. This is proved by the fact that the Quran calls married women “المُحْصَنَاتُ” – the fortified or protected women, and the men who marry them “مُحْصِنِينَ” – those seeking marriage for fortifying or protecting the woman long-term i.e. not intending to use her body temporarily just for (permissible) conjugation only to eventually dump her through divorce. In both these words, the root word is the same, “حصن”, which means “fortress”. (check an arabic lexicon if you don't believe me)
The reason why marriage is a “protection” or “fortress” for a Muslim is, because it allows him or her to fulfill their sexual desires in a permissible and beautiful manner.
Now, You tell me how can a lady that does temporary marriage be fortified..?? If a guy goes to a lady and gives her money spends the night (or a few days) with her... it's prostitution in plain and simple terms... no matter what name may someone give to it. She will be used and abused.. it's common sense... Whereas in proper marriage, each party has rights.... the husband has to spend on the wife, take care of her emotional and physical needs...
That's why one of my fav aayhas of Quran is:
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought." (30:21)
even the beautiful word used here لِّتَسْكُنُوا comes from 'sukoon' to stop, to be at rest.. i.e. to have peace... meaning the purpose of marriage is that the husband and the wife find peace in each other... I seriously doubt that when someone knows they are with the other person for two days, they really can have 'sukoon'....
AsSalamu Allaikum Wr wb,
Soldier313 look I really like most of your posts here, may Allah reward you... Aameen.. the thing is Quran tells us "...And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and aggression. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is severe in penalty." (5:2) so I cannot agree with you here...
Instead of taking the long route of discussing narrations with you and how sahih bukhari and muslim are authentic and what refrences you quoted can never be used against it; I say lets just stop and let Allah's book speak for itself!
You see, according to the Quran, when a man and woman marry each other, they become “fortified”, especially the woman. This is proved by the fact that the Quran calls married women “المُحْصَنَاتُ” – the fortified or protected women, and the men who marry them “مُحْصِنِينَ” – those seeking marriage for fortifying or protecting the woman long-term i.e. not intending to use her body temporarily just for (permissible) conjugation only to eventually dump her through divorce. In both these words, the root word is the same, “حصن”, which means “fortress”. (check an arabic lexicon if you don't believe me)
The reason why marriage is a “protection” or “fortress” for a Muslim is, because it allows him or her to fulfill their sexual desires in a permissible and beautiful manner.
Now, You tell me how can a lady that does temporary marriage be fortified..?? If a guy goes to a lady and gives her money spends the night (or a few days) with her... it's prostitution in plain and simple terms... no matter what name may someone give to it. She will be used and abused.. it's common sense... Whereas in proper marriage, each party has rights.... the husband has to spend on the wife, take care of her emotional and physical needs...
That's why one of my fav aayhas of Quran is:
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought." (30:21)
even the beautiful word used here لِّتَسْكُنُوا comes from 'sukoon' to stop, to be at rest.. i.e. to have peace... meaning the purpose of marriage is that the husband and the wife find peace in each other... I seriously doubt that when someone knows they are with the other person for two days, they really can have 'sukoon'....
